Sunday, September 3, 2017.  The transference of this blog to the new format has created some serious problems with the layout and operation of the top page tabs that at present do not seem fixable.  The information stored in connection to the page tabs used to only appear when a reader clicked on the tab to find an actual list on the page that then appeared, from which they could choose which to click on to read.

Not now.  Those sub-pages are (obviously) splayed all over the top part of the blog – to my great dismay – and there does not appear to be any way I can correct this problem within the new format without losing those sub-pages completely.

To complicate matters there has been some corruption of ‘data’ in this feed-over to newer blog formatting = sad!

I do not have the heart at present to even begin to take up an attempt at a conversation with WordPress tech support about these problems.  So……..  Where this is all going as we whirl into the future of time is unknown.  Please bear with clumsy this process!!


This has never been a blog for entertainment.  It has never been about razzmatazz.  This is a blog about truth and healing.  Perhaps it makes sense as our crazy civilization rushes while it totters toward a future few can envision together.

At the same time as difficulties make their way into the very fiber of the cyber foundations that allow this blog to exist at all in any formation – I remain grateful to WordPress for allowing us without extra financial resources to create and attempt to sustain a blog that does not cost money.  EVERYTHING in this world IS NOT ABOUT MONEY!

It matters that we know this.  Sharing matters.


Meanwhile most of this blog has been transferred to new generation of programmed formatting.  Perhaps what has been broken can be repaired.

I do not yet know….


Here is my first book out in ebook format as it provides an outline of the conditions of my malevolent childhood.  Click here to view or purchase–

Story Without Words:  How Did Child Abuse Break My Mother?

It lists for $2.99 and can be read by Amazon Prime customers without charge.  A daring book – for daring readers – about a really tough subject.


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