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mom kid envelope</image:title><image:caption>THIS is what I believe took my mother to Alaska.  THIS is what called her to homestead.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://stopthestorm.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/1-mom-kid-env.jpg</image:loc><image:title>1 mom kid env</image:title><image:caption>Archetypal - prophetic of the HUNGER FOR THE LAND, of the ruined heart healed upon the land</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://stopthestorm.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/2-kid-mom-envel.jpg</image:loc><image:title>2 kid mom envel</image:title><image:caption>The strangeness of these two pieces - archetypal images - prophetic</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2012-11-06T23:56:50+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://stopthestorm.org/2012/11/05/writing-book-two-of-the-demise-of-mildred-series/</loc><lastmod>2012-11-06T00:36:59+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://stopthestorm.org/2012/11/03/quote-from-chapter-ten-of-suburbia-to-alaska/</loc><lastmod>2012-11-03T12:46:12+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://stopthestorm.org/2012/10/29/the-gift-of-a-great-book-publishing-omen/</loc><lastmod>2012-11-03T09:01:55+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://stopthestorm.org/the-devils-child-my-childhood/a-few-of-my-childhood-handmade-greeting-cards/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://stopthestorm.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/10/6-2-back-large-envelope.jpg</image:loc><image:title>6 2 back large envelope</image:title><image:caption>Back of same envelope bordered in black</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://stopthestorm.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/10/6-1-front-large-envelope1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>6 1 front large envelope</image:title><image:caption>This is envelope for above card, flap open</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://stopthestorm.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/10/6-1-front-large-envelope.jpg</image:loc><image:title>6 1 front large envelope</image:title><image:caption>The paper and the lettering on this envelope match the above card</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://stopthestorm.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/10/5-5-closeup-inside-left-mom-tree-bday-card.jpg</image:loc><image:title>5 5 closeup inside left mom tree bday card</image:title><image:caption>I doubt I had any concept of the equinox, but find my choice of themes for this card interesting as her birthday was December 21st.  More a step into winter than a step into spring, but I was thinking positively!  Interesting split of "21st" there, but not a split between fall and winter like this date actually is.  I think that's a little squirrel on a black rock there, some animal appearing on the right there.  Curtains or a valence on the window of the house.  Very dark door, no sign of a door knob which is something I always look for in a child's drawing.  Interesting no sign of heat in that house -- no chimney, no smoke.  Would think it would be a bit cold!  </image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://stopthestorm.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/10/5-2-full-inside-mom-tree-bday-card.jpg</image:loc><image:title>5 2 full inside mom tree bday card</image:title><image:caption>This is the inside of the card with the deer, tree etc on it just viewed.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://stopthestorm.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/10/5-1-front-mom-tree-bday-card.jpg</image:loc><image:title>5 1 front mom tree bday card</image:title><image:caption>I think the deer was from a stencil -- I see I attempted to change the front leg so it was walking but erased my effort -- lots of plant related detail in this, notice the oval 'hole in the tree', lots of art therapist controversy over those!  I was enjoying using the crayons and colors in this drawing  </image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://stopthestorm.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/10/4-2-inside-tulip-card.jpg</image:loc><image:title>4 2 inside tulip card</image:title><image:caption>Here's the inside, Mother's Day card -- would be nice if whe and I were two flowers side by side!</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://stopthestorm.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/10/4-1-front-tulip-card.jpg</image:loc><image:title>4 1 front tulip card</image:title><image:caption>No doubt I was a little older when I made this birthday card for mother.  That's a cut out circle in the center, as you will soon see</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://stopthestorm.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/10/3-2-inside-duck-card-to-gma.jpg</image:loc><image:title>3 2 inside duck card to gma</image:title><image:caption>Inside the 1962 easter card, I guess that's a rock there in the grass</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://stopthestorm.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/10/3-1-front-duck-card-to-gma.jpg</image:loc><image:title>3 1 front duck card to gma</image:title><image:caption>This is a 1962 (age 10) Easter card to 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beaded buckle 003</image:title><image:caption>Once a beader always a beader - started with the pop beads I was given for my 2nd birthday in 1953!  My friend's registered Arizona brand - and images reflecting his great love for his horses</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2012-07-10T02:27:33+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://stopthestorm.org/2012/06/24/just-a-war-of-the-words/</loc><lastmod>2012-06-25T00:40:39+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://stopthestorm.org/2012/06/24/stacked-traumas/</loc><lastmod>2012-06-24T19:36:13+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://stopthestorm.org/2012/06/24/age-7-mid-1959-the-baby-bottle-and-mid-night-beatings/</loc><lastmod>2012-06-24T20:44:59+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://stopthestorm.org/the-devils-child-my-childhood/vignettes-from-my-abusive-childhood/age-7-childhood-stories-sept-1958-through-aug-1959/</loc><lastmod>2012-06-24T16:44:54+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>weekly</changefreq><priority>0.6</priority></url><url><loc>https://stopthestorm.org/2012/06/23/making-a-life-in-a-make-shift-world-and-making-some-goat-pen-shade/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://stopthestorm.org/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/06232012-goat-pen-shade-corn-011.jpg</image:loc><image:title>06232012 goat pen shade corn 011</image:title><image:caption>The yard is on drip irrigation - but plants are not liberally or excessively watered - so even the corn must be tough</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://stopthestorm.org/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/06232012-goat-pen-shade-more-flowers-012.jpg</image:loc><image:title>06232012 goat pen shade more flowers  012</image:title><image:caption>In our 100+ degree heat without rain takes effort to keep a garden alive - well.....</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://stopthestorm.org/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/06232012-goat-pen-shade-flowers-010.jpg</image:loc><image:title>06232012 goat pen shade flowers 010</image:title><image:caption>Ava's Hummingbird Mint - 2nd year - first time blooming - a native plant from Colorado - but does take more water than a true Arizona native plant</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://stopthestorm.org/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/06232012-goat-pen-shade-pink-yarrow-023.jpg</image:loc><image:title>06232012 goat pen shade pink yarrow  023</image:title><image:caption>New to the garden this year - Pink Yarrow</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://stopthestorm.org/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/06232012-goat-pen-shade-022.jpg</image:loc><image:title>06232012 goat pen shade 022</image:title><image:caption>Stucco roofing would not be my first choice - but hey - gotta do with what I have!</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://stopthestorm.org/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/06232012-goat-pen-shade-021.jpg</image:loc><image:title>06232012 goat pen shade 021</image:title><image:caption>Speaking of water runoff - not gonna happen unless those shade structure pallets are covered with something.  No $ for roofing tin - have materials to stucco the front of the fence - so - a stuccoed roof in progress!</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://stopthestorm.org/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/06232012-goat-pen-shade-019.jpg</image:loc><image:title>06232012 goat pen shade 019</image:title><image:caption>This unpainted end of the pallet fence will be sculpted at the top (still the secret how) and stuccoed</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://stopthestorm.org/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/06232012-goat-pen-shade-018.jpg</image:loc><image:title>06232012 goat pen shade 018</image:title><image:caption>And - yes - now the white hose drains the rain water (it WILL rain here soon!!) right to the new little Jujube tree!</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://stopthestorm.org/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/06232012-goat-pen-shade-017.jpg</image:loc><image:title>06232012 goat pen shade 017</image:title><image:caption>So I dare say what severe early abuse survivors are missing out on in abilities we make up for with sheer determination, creativity and ingenuity.  Now I can reach my irrigation filter - made from screen in an old door someone gave me a long time ago.  I KNEW I would need it someday</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://stopthestorm.org/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/06232012-goat-pen-shade-015.jpg</image:loc><image:title>06232012 goat pen shade 015</image:title><image:caption>Up there tucked under those pieces of board where the long gutter drains is where I had planned initially to place my hose - NO way possible to get in there to clean the mess out!</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2012-06-24T20:02:42+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://stopthestorm.org/2012/06/17/dissociation-and-out-of-body-experience/</loc><lastmod>2012-06-22T06:33:47+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://stopthestorm.org/2012/06/15/last-nights-unusual-dream/</loc><lastmod>2012-06-17T01:50:55+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://stopthestorm.org/2012/06/14/update-on-the-big-garden-fun-june-14-2012/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://stopthestorm.org/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/0614012-garden-gate-012.jpg</image:loc><image:title>0614012 garden gate 012</image:title><image:caption>The garden gate oiled - and it is HEAVY, probably weighing 60 pounds, though I honestly cannot figure HOW it can weigh that much - and have NO IDEA how I am going to move and hang it alone.  Story of my life, EVERYTHING I do I do ALONE - and no idea even who to ask to help me (not good at asking for help, either).  But....</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://stopthestorm.org/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/0614012-garden-gate-010.jpg</image:loc><image:title>0614012 garden gate 010</image:title><image:caption>Recycled very OLD siding - stained/painted/oiled with the linseed.  My hands in spite of several washings still smell of the oil - a comforting smell to me, warm and reminding of the great forests I have been blessed to see in my life - and the life of the forest that was in every new and old board I ever lay my hands on - pallets included</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://stopthestorm.org/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/0614012-garden-gate-009.jpg</image:loc><image:title>0614012 garden gate 009</image:title><image:caption>Now - here's the garden gate coming into being!</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://stopthestorm.org/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/0614012-garden-gate-008.jpg</image:loc><image:title>0614012 garden gate 008</image:title><image:caption>Again - the super fun project's beginning above the gateway (looking toward Mexico)  HINT:  getting read to stucco the pallet fence - and THEN SOME!!</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://stopthestorm.org/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/0614012-garden-gate-007.jpg</image:loc><image:title>0614012 garden gate 007</image:title><image:caption>Grounding the gateway to the earth with earth adobe and stones, making this structure impressively sturdy when completed</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://stopthestorm.org/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/0614012-garden-gate-006.jpg</image:loc><image:title>0614012 garden gate 006</image:title><image:caption>Goat pen on the right - and where the garden gate will hang - quite a story about what's going on up there on top of this gateway!  Much more to come on THAT project!  Big FUN!</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://stopthestorm.org/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/0614012-garden-gate-005.jpg</image:loc><image:title>0614012 garden gate 005</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://stopthestorm.org/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/0614012-garden-gate-004.jpg</image:loc><image:title>0614012 garden gate 004</image:title><image:caption>Closing in my 'whole in the earth' sunken patio - large enough for 2 chairs, or some kind of reclining chaise lounge I do not (yet) own</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://stopthestorm.org/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/0614012-garden-gate-003.jpg</image:loc><image:title>0614012 garden gate 003</image:title><image:caption>The newest addition to the garden</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://stopthestorm.org/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/0614012-garden-gate-002.jpg</image:loc><image:title>0614012 garden gate 002</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2012-06-15T14:37:26+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://stopthestorm.org/2012/06/09/how-many-need-the-quiet/</loc><lastmod>2012-06-11T14:53:39+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://stopthestorm.org/2012/06/09/progress-of-the-goat-pen-project-june-9-2012/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://stopthestorm.org/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/06092012-goat-pen-17.jpg</image:loc><image:title>06092012 goat pen 17</image:title><image:caption>This is the smaller of the Texas Ranger variety - they supposedly only bloom when it is going to rain - no sign of that happening - yet!!  So pretty!</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://stopthestorm.org/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/06092012-goat-pen-16.jpg</image:loc><image:title>06092012 goat pen 16</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://stopthestorm.org/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/06092012-goat-pen-15.jpg</image:loc><image:title>06092012 goat pen 15</image:title><image:caption>adobe hole floor progress</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://stopthestorm.org/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/06092012-goat-pen-14.jpg</image:loc><image:title>06092012 goat pen 14</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://stopthestorm.org/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/06092012-goat-pen-13.jpg</image:loc><image:title>06092012 goat pen 13</image:title><image:caption>adobe mine hole - progress for small sunken patio - morning quiet 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I desperately needed Daddy to KEEP loving me, but he did not, evidently because he COULD not.  Now I am thinking about Big 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green</image:title><image:caption>And a little winter greenery</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://stopthestorm.org/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/red-mosaic.jpg</image:loc><image:title>red mosaic</image:title><image:caption>The dump these pieces were retrieved from closed in 1954</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://stopthestorm.org/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/blue-mosaic.jpg</image:loc><image:title>blue mosaic</image:title><image:caption>Dishes on the wall</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://stopthestorm.org/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/uses-for-wool.jpg</image:loc><image:title>uses for wool</image:title><image:caption>Warm - enough - I hope!  (My kitchen water faucets run outside the wall - good ole Arizona-Mexico border plumbing)</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://stopthestorm.org/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/rake-pole.jpg</image:loc><image:title>rake pole</image:title><image:caption>Well, some folks hang old saw blades up for interior decoration -- why not a rake?  Anyone else on the planet have a rake rod for curtains?</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://stopthestorm.org/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/curtain-closed.jpg</image:loc><image:title>curtain closed</image:title><image:caption>Will the wrinkles disappear as the sprayed fabric dries?  Stay tuned....</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://stopthestorm.org/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/curtain-open.jpg</image:loc><image:title>curtain open</image:title><image:caption>Used drapery, top opened up, cut in half, sprayed with water with a little fabric softener in it -- My maid said she'd return next century to iron them for 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Keystone Pipeline project, which carries crude oil across Saskatchewan and Manitoba, and through North Dakota, South Dakota, Nebraska, Kansas, Missouri and Illinois. TransCanada Corp. has won support for a new pipeline project that will tap into the burgeoning U.S. Bakken region, where oil production is expected to nearly double in coming years. THE CANADIAN PRESS/AP, Grand Forks Herald, Eric Hylden</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2012-05-03T23:48:20+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://stopthestorm.org/wellspring-for-donations/north-dakotas-tribes-oppose-keystone-xl-tar-sands-pipeline-091311/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://stopthestorm.org/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/3612-keystone-pipeline-rail-cars-pipes-canada-us-oil.jpg</image:loc><image:title>TransCanada 20110120</image:title><image:caption>In this Feb. 28, 2008 file photo, rail cars arrive in Milton, N.D., loaded with pipe for TransCanada's Keystone Pipeline project, which carries crude oil across Saskatchewan and Manitoba, and through North Dakota, South Dakota, Nebraska, Kansas, Missouri and Illinois. TransCanada Corp. has won support for a new pipeline project that will tap into the burgeoning U.S. Bakken region, where oil production is expected to nearly double in coming years. THE CANADIAN PRESS/AP, Grand Forks Herald, Eric Hylden</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://stopthestorm.org/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/karenkeystonepdf.gif</image:loc><image:title>karenKeystonepdf</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://stopthestorm.org/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/keystoneinfo4karen.jpg</image:loc><image:title>keystoneInfo4Karen</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2011-09-14T15:53:47+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>weekly</changefreq><priority>0.6</priority></url><url><loc>https://stopthestorm.org/2011/09/11/the-way-of-all-nations-lead-us-to-justice/</loc><lastmod>2011-09-11T14:57:26+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://stopthestorm.org/wellspring-for-donations/09-11-11-justice-versus-tyranny-in-the-world-voice-of-truth/</loc><lastmod>2011-09-11T14:39:59+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>weekly</changefreq><priority>0.6</priority></url><url><loc>https://stopthestorm.org/2010/12/12/words-do-not-mean-social-connection-to-me-they-are-object-tools-weapons/</loc><lastmod>2011-09-11T05:09:51+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://stopthestorm.org/2011/09/10/sharing-life-on-the-lighter-side/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://stopthestorm.org/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/apollo-earth.jpg</image:loc><image:title>apollo-earth</image:title><image:caption>Home Sweet Home</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2011-09-10T20:03:54+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://stopthestorm.org/2011/09/08/putting-the-burden-of-child-abuse-down-on-paper/</loc><lastmod>2011-09-09T05:56:01+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://stopthestorm.org/attachment/empathy-2/empathy-preschoolers/</loc><lastmod>2011-09-07T15:54:00+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>weekly</changefreq><priority>0.6</priority></url><url><loc>https://stopthestorm.org/2011/09/05/cruelty-to-children-and-animals-the-disgust-connection/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://stopthestorm.org/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/lunar-eclipse.jpg</image:loc><image:title>lunar-eclipse</image:title><image:caption>Most of us know the difference between right and wrong.  Most of us choose the right.  This does not mean we are free of obligation on behalf of others to take action against evil wherever it shows its ugly head.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2011-09-06T02:51:41+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://stopthestorm.org/2011/09/04/plumbing-the-depths-of-childhood-trauma-memories/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://stopthestorm.org/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/ocean.jpg</image:loc><image:title>ocean</image:title><image:caption>Must we be content 'reporting' our child abuse memories in the same old way?  What wonderous info about ourselves might lie beneath their surface?</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2011-09-06T01:45:32+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://stopthestorm.org/2011/09/04/consciousness-of-the-self-and-choices-of-the-self-in-the-midst-of-hell/</loc><lastmod>2011-09-04T17:27:37+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://stopthestorm.org/2011/09/03/the-good-bad-info-about-trauma-altered-development-from-child-abuse-trauma/</loc><lastmod>2011-09-04T02:30:30+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://stopthestorm.org/2011/09/01/i-bet-my-bpd-mother-was-too-sick-to-become-an-angel/</loc><lastmod>2011-09-01T23:12:48+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://stopthestorm.org/2011/09/01/the-special-joy-of-healing-traumas-me-age-14-60/</loc><lastmod>2011-09-01T21:42:28+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://stopthestorm.org/the-devils-child-my-childhood/vignettes-from-my-abusive-childhood/age-13-dirty-diaper-and-pepples-in-my-knees/</loc><lastmod>2012-11-16T14:27:34+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>weekly</changefreq><priority>0.6</priority></url><url><loc>https://stopthestorm.org/2011/09/01/music-the-unhampered-passage-of-time/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://stopthestorm.org/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/jered-age-5-space-art.jpg</image:loc><image:title>jered age 5 space art</image:title><image:caption>Planets, asteroids, moons, shooting stars, flying spacemen -- the amazing free expression of the experience of hearing a concert - my son age 5 - TO MOM (heart!)</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2011-09-01T19:18:25+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://stopthestorm.org/2011/08/31/child-abuse-what-does-masculine-father-and-feminine-mother/</loc><lastmod>2011-08-31T18:14:02+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://stopthestorm.org/2011/08/30/adults-who-are-helping-abused-children-heal-teach-them-to-play-piano/</loc><lastmod>2011-08-30T20:40:11+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://stopthestorm.org/2011/08/29/what-i-need-to-know-time-for-a-break/</loc><lastmod>2011-08-30T15:28:15+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://stopthestorm.org/2011/08/29/whose-story-is-this-anyway/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://stopthestorm.org/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/1962-log-house-nursery.jpg</image:loc><image:title>1962 log house nursery</image:title><image:caption>This was the other house, the log house where Mother had her Happy Time nursery school, a boarder, and her family of 7 often living, sandwiched somewhere in between throughout my 5th grade year</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://stopthestorm.org/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/051959-hut.jpg</image:loc><image:title>051959 hut</image:title><image:caption>May 19, 1959 - three months prior to my 8th birthday - hut eventually grew on both ends, extended from 5 4' wide sections to 13.  I have yet to find a picture taken from high above it that shows it that long, nor can I find in Mother's letters the timetable of its 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